I wonder if you agree with me when I say that as we age, we appreciate more and more that the principle of sacrifice which we followed in our early lives is paying great dividends today. For instance, when we were young and starting out, those early paychecks seemed like lots of money, and we could easily make choices to save for rainy days, or contribute to retirement savings plans. After all, compared to what we were “earning” that paycheck amount was like a windfall! We had been used to pocket change through parental support from allowances and from small jobs like babysitting or paper routes (or in my native New England, snow shoveling). I’m so grateful when I look back and remember the discipline I had then, and I credit my parents for encouraging it.
Now that I am at the age where I must take mandatory
withdrawals of retirement savings every month, it’s such fun! It feels like
taking flight, and to further the analogy, such a departure from how
utilitarian I must have seemed about spending money (particularly on myself) in
what I now call my past life.
But like the character in Aesop’s Fable The Miser and His
Gold, I realize that spending money on others as well as myself is
essential to happiness. And like my Aunt
Alice (of happy memory) used to say, “I hope they have as much fun spending it
as I had making it!”
When we think about the best times of our lives, they were
rarely spent alone. And doesn’t finding
like-minded loved ones interested in enjoying life together make planning and
expenditure so much richer?
When we encounter those in a season of their lives who could
legitimately use a helping hand and we are able to assist in some way, whose
cup is actually filled more… ours or theirs?
When we look forward to a time and place where we’re sure
wonderful memories will be made, don’t we picture our heart’s desire met and
fulfilled not just because of the money we will spend, but because we will so
enjoy the experience?
In the parable of the Rich Fool found in the 12th
chapter of the gospel of Luke, we read an important question asked by a man
already rich: “Teacher, tell my brother to share his inheritance with me.”
And the Lord’s answer comes in the form of an admonition:
“Take care to guard against all greed. For though one may be rich, one’s life
does not consist of possessions.”
Our earthly life is short, limited, and fleeting. At any time we can be called to
eternity. At that moment, the rich
harvest we wish to yield before God is weighed, and the faith with which we
lived will be judged. How did we use our material goods? Our time? Our talent?
Our treasure? Did our faith inform our lives?
Were we rich in love and fellowship, attentive to those less
fortunate? Did we focus externally on
using the goods of this world for the glory of God, with a sense of stewardship
and detachment? Did we live in gratitude
for all we were given? Or did we amass
wealth, feeling it was never enough, making use of it to indulge in a life of
excess?
We don’t live forever. We can save, even hoard. We can focus on doing rather than on
being. But if we are eternity-minded,
the illusion of doing more so we can have more dissolves into nothing when we
hear the words spoken by the Lord to the Rich Fool - “The things you have
prepared… to whom will they belong?”
We need to be on guard, only seeking the things of the world
while reflectively paying close attention to what is really important. A prosperous, materialistic society can be
its own end, and the means to that end can become our life’s journey. We need
always to balance the pursuit of larger homes, bigger cars, more stuff, and an
excess of pleasure against the intentional sacrifice for others. Our value is
not determined by what we own, but how we use what we have been given. With a properly-ordered foundation, however,
with a richness in faith and charity, we will have used the gifts we have been
given… health, friendship, the power to find and bring joy… as pilgrims on an
earthly journey employing and using worldly goods as a means to attain the goal
for which we were made… eternity in heaven.
I have always felt fulfilled allowing the love that fills my
heart to guide where I spend my time and treasure. Knowing many of you as I do, and learning
from your example, I know you find that same sense of fulfilment. Our friend Matthew, quoting Jesus his 6th
chapter, concurs:
“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where
moths and decay destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up
treasures in heaven… For where your treasure is, there also your heart will be.”
Great read!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful . That sure hit home. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteBeautifully written. I couldn’t agree more.
ReplyDeleteSending love and hugs. 🥰
Thanks for sharing. Those words are so true.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
That was a great post. Felt like you where talking to me.
ReplyDeleteSo beautifully written. You are so very smart.
ReplyDeleteWonderful and very meaningful thoughts especially now that I am in my 90s. 😃
ReplyDeleteThought provoking, thanks.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteSuch good words of wisdom and a great reminder.
Sooooo true! I can relate to so much of what you are saying! I have read this several times and get more each time.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness so well said !!!
ReplyDeleteLove reading your words !!!💕
Some people GET IT. You do and it shows in your life and the joy you exhibit!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing. Those words are so true.
ReplyDeleteThanks.
ReplyDeleteNo one on their deathbed ever says they wish they had bought ____.
They always talk about time spent with loved ones.
I agree, a rich life has nothing to do with money or material things.
Your article today was inspiring and timing was perfect for a sweet friend of mine who is facing a family need which requires more than money. I’m passing on your piece. Love you much.
ReplyDeleteThat is a very nice message. And I feel we are very lucky to be able to give, to share.
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